Tuesday, September 1, 2009

The things we do for love.

Its funny, I'm talking bout how funny we act when we "think" we're in love. Come on, think about it; we stop the human self preservation instinct and start putting som1 else 1st. How weird is that?..scientifically of course..its called self preservation for a reason. Single people will have 20 bucks and think shit...how's this gonna get me2my next pay check but some1 in love is all like..hhmmm don't think 20 bucks I'd enough for our date...DATE?..is that what's really important at this point in time?
Well it happens, to all of us...even those of us who like to think they're immune..the hard guys, players and jaded chicks..we all sucome2mushy-isims every now and then.
When there's a love interest...and I mean love not crush or lust...we drop everything n start thinking how we're gonna get to be around this person. We miss work, lie to our friends even skip bowling night..its unreal...bowling night damn it!
That's why I came to terms with love...did you ever notice they never say "smartly in love" or "organised in love" its always "crazy for her" or "mad about him" n let's not forget the basic "fall in love"...last time I checked, falling was a bad thing.
So I guess what I'm trying to say is, we all do it, birds, bees, even educated flees...we all are suceptable2that earthly affliction called love. But as we have our opposable thumbs that keep us at the top of the food chain...we should be wiser about these things. Its all well and good to be googoo gaga at age 16 and even when you just hit 20...but if we still falling, tripping and being mad all over the place after a certain age...we have a problem.
Be smart about it..wake up and smell the coffee..when your heart starts pounding faster and your thinking about erecting a stadium in her honour. Stop, Look, And listen...is she worth it and is he really who you think he is? Love hurts but is also the key to our humanity. So take you time and do it right.
I mean...you only live once, so let's not spend half of it sulking over some girl that tookyo ur heart n ran or some guy that "inevitably" slept with your friend.
Live your life...but be smart about it.

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